Go where there are girls. It’s as simple, as we state it.
Go grocery-shopping. Go to the busy streets and do daygame. Go out clubbing (non-verbal game helps language barrier).
The reason we conclude, that it’s in your head, is because we move in the same conundrum, and find a way.
Listen to us, and risk trying - or claim we are full of shit, and risk notthing. It makes fuckall difference for anyone but you.
”Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it!” ― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe