Dazed and confused Italian

Generel teori og diskussion for nybegyndere

Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Silvio » søn 18. mar 2018 18:34

Hello everybody / Hej alle sammen!!

My name is Silvio and I'm a student from Italy doing my MSc in Copenhagen. Sorry for my english, I know that this is a danish forum but I found it randomly and it would be really awesome if you could hear me out.

I was really excited to come to Denmark to study, explore the country and, of course, meet some beautiful danish ladies. However getting now to my second semester I'm a little disappointed. I'm studying in a technical school where there aren't many girls and even some of these few are taken, so you feel me here... Not a lot of options. But I am sure this city is full of beautiful girls, I just don't know where they hang out.

This is basically my question, my fine gentlemen. Where can a 20 something guy go in this town to socialise and meet some potential partners?

Peace out bros!
Silvio
Nyklækket
 
Indlæg: 3
Tilmeldt: søn 18. mar 2018 18:17

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Gnome » søn 18. mar 2018 18:57

Hey hey.

If you're asking for a place to go out I suggest Vestergade or the streets close to that. Tons of bars to choose from. Theres also Studenterhuset, which has alot of students from other countries.
"Husk. Intet er umuligt for den der bærer viljen i hjertet. Tak fordi I kiggede med." Thomas Mygind, vært på Fangerne på Fortet.
Brugeravatar
Gnome
Angel of the Moon
 
Indlæg: 872
Tilmeldt: lør 11. jul 2015 15:24
Geografisk sted: København

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Desire » tirs 20. mar 2018 23:33

Dude c'mon.. take some action yourself. If the ladies aren't at your school go out and find them.

- Nightlife
- Salsa parties or dance class
- begin to sports
- go bouldering/climbing
- go out every day of the week and explore events in cph
- meetup.com

Cph is like any other city. Be social. Girls are. Then they are there.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" - Wayne Gretzky
Brugeravatar
Desire
T1000
 
Indlæg: 1933
Tilmeldt: fre 21. nov 2014 23:12
Geografisk sted: København

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Silvio » ons 21. mar 2018 00:00

First of all, thank you for your responses.

Now let me answer more specifically because I have tried everything you guys mention except meetup.

Nightlife is a mess. You are in a loud environment and can't really have a social interaction and connection. I know that some people do it successfully, but these are mostly pretty boys who can score just by saying hi, what's up to a girl.

Salsa parties and dancing in general are my main activity. I go dancing twice a week including Studenterhuset as it was mentioned but even there a lot of people are old 30+ (except Studenterhuset) and there are very few cute girls (including Studenterhuset).

Starting a sport or going bouldering/climbing just to meet girls is a little overkill without any guarantee of success. I don't have much time because of school anyway and I am suppose to spend this little free time that I have on random sports because maybe, just maybe, a beautiful girl that will also be available is going to be there? It's a longshot and I do sports myself anyway two times per week.

As for the events taking place in CPH, this is pretty much what I'm asking because, apart from dancing events, I am not aware of anything else taking place where it could be a good opportunity to meet people.

I just have the feeling that danish girls are inaccessible if you don't know someone inside their social clique. Or I'm just a confused Italian...
Silvio
Nyklækket
 
Indlæg: 3
Tilmeldt: søn 18. mar 2018 18:17

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Desire » ons 21. mar 2018 11:23

I think you are finding excuses instead of solutions.

Girls are social creatures. When you are social, you will meet them. Whether you are social by playing football, dancing, nightlife or what ever... it doesn't matter.
If you only see a sport as a mean to get to a girl of course that's not the way.

But if you create a life where you are social and do cool stuff. Then you will meet cool people and will automaticly start to be invited to all sorts of events, where beautiful girls are.

If you see a lot of beautiful girls in closed social cliques, break that and become part of it.

Get rid og your limiting beliefs.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" - Wayne Gretzky
Brugeravatar
Desire
T1000
 
Indlæg: 1933
Tilmeldt: fre 21. nov 2014 23:12
Geografisk sted: København

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Silvio » tors 22. mar 2018 00:02

I understand what you are trying to say, but my problems are real, not in my head.

I am enrolled in a technical school without many girls. The dancing and social events in CPH are overwhelmed with other dudes and the few girls are either not so attractive or they are taken. For example, I was in a language cafe 10 days ago to practice my danish and we were around 6-7 dudes and just two girls. One of them wasn't really attractive and the other that was (guess what) had a boyfriend.

I could sit here all day telling you guys examples like that. These are real problems in the real world, not in my head. I have no problem to throw myself outside my bubble and hunt, that's what I am already doing. But I just can't find any decent place in this town with a good male/female ratio. Even the best fisherman in the world will starve if he can't find any fish to catch.
Silvio
Nyklækket
 
Indlæg: 3
Tilmeldt: søn 18. mar 2018 18:17

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Fame » tors 22. mar 2018 12:23

Go where there are girls. It’s as simple, as we state it.
Go grocery-shopping. Go to the busy streets and do daygame. Go out clubbing (non-verbal game helps language barrier).

The reason we conclude, that it’s in your head, is because we move in the same conundrum, and find a way.
Listen to us, and risk trying - or claim we are full of shit, and risk notthing. It makes fuckall difference for anyone but you.
Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it!” ― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Fame
Godzilla
 
Indlæg: 772
Tilmeldt: lør 11. okt 2014 15:00
Geografisk sted: Aarhus (39 år)

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf Kaizer » tors 22. mar 2018 12:46

As a general demographic tendency, the gender ratio in Copenhagen (and other big metropolitan cities) is generally extremely favorable for males, with 8000 more single women than men. https://www.mx.dk/nyheder/danmark/story/12077666 , http://nyheder.tv2.dk/samfund/2016-01-2 ... in-kommune
"Make it, don't take it, make it, don't fake it."
Brugeravatar
Kaizer
Angel of the Sun
 
Indlæg: 955
Tilmeldt: tirs 17. dec 2013 02:52
Geografisk sted: Cafeteriet på Faaborg-Cypern Overfarten

Re: Dazed and confused Italian

Indlægaf DML » tors 22. mar 2018 16:43

Focus on building an awesome social circle and an awesome life.
Create a life where girls automatically becomes a part of your life. Join your university’s bar, befriend connectors and do at least 1 social activity that you like to do. Stop thinking short term and only befriend girls that you want to fuck. Befriend everyone and suddenly you’ll get invited to tons of parties and introduced to a lot of new girls. Use your social media for your advantage. And remember, the more value you give, the more value you can expect in return.

Some even more advanced stuff:
https://youtu.be/GIb2hBVd-fM
Are YOU living a life you want to relive?
Brugeravatar
DML
Konge af Burma
 
Indlæg: 213
Tilmeldt: ons 29. mar 2017 20:25


Tilbage til Generelt om The Game

Hvem er online

Brugere der læser dette forum: Ingen tilmeldte og 5 gæster