Jeg brugte meget role reversal, rollespil, DHV, our-world, hype og en masse basal playfulness - det er stadig de teknikker jeg oftest bruger i dag.
Sidenhen er jeg gået meget væk fra tekst game. Jeg går ikke så meget op i det, og vil egentlig bare ses IRL. Derudover er jeg ikke stor fan af tekst-kommunikation. Det har så mange begrænsninger.. Alligevel har det sine fordele at kunne lukke en date, bruge tinder osv.
Jeg vil selvfølgelig primært forsøge at poste de interaktioner, som har relevans og game-elementer indeover.. Here we go:
Kandidat studine - super cute (hb 8): En af mine længste samtaler...
Har forsøgt at forklare begrundelser for det jeg skriver undervejs.. forklaringer er givet undervejs i *()*
D: So glad to see you replied to your own friend request *(jeg laver altid call backs i første besked, og lidt humor skader aldrig)*
D: It was nice meeting you
I: Haha, that's why I didn't wanted to press the button, seemed a bit wired to send myself a friend request
I: It was nice meeting you
D: Oh don't worry, i'm okay with it Are you a workaholic? *(Vi mødtes gennem arbejde. Skrev bare noget random, for at bryde det almene)*
I: Hmm what a question. Don't know, I guess it depends on how you define workaholic.
I: What about you? *(Det svarer jeg bevidst ikke på)*
D: I was taught to begin with the tough ones! lol good answer. The kind og answer one would give, when forgotten what normal feels like Any exciting plans for the weekend? (Becides working obv.)
I: Hmmm not a bad strategy.
I: So you can figure out right away whether it's worth spending time with the easy ones or not? *(Shit test eller bare direkte? Jeg kan lide det, og spiller med)*
I: By the way you did not answer mine?
I: Yes actually going to the theater tomorrow evening , one of my friends had a ticket left so I am joining her. Besides that, yes working on my thesis.
I: What about you?
D: You got me all figured out. It's always good to hear about peoples addictions I work part time. But working a lot to save some money, so I can go abroad (akward yesterday because my colleagues don't know yet..) *(Bekender humoristisk kulør i starten. Leder derefter emnet videre for, at DHV'e )*
D: Oh cool with the theater. What is the show?
I: oh ok, no worries I won't tell anybody. Actually it was the same situation for me last year. Starting in February and then leaving the bank in September to go to Canada... but in the end it worked out all find *(Her har vi allerede noget our world med "no worries won't tell")*
I: So where are you planning to go?
I: I am actually not sure... I'll tell you tomorrow. So what are your plans for the weekend? *(IOI - antager hun enten er interesseret eller vil ses)*
I: so what's the next question ? or did I already pass the first round?
D: Perfect.. It's our little secret HB_navn! Haha guess we are equal bad cops Gonna surf in XXXXXX. Omg I will become so goood!!
D: Surprise theater. How good! I'm going to Zoo bar with some friends. *Workplace* gets us happy hour! Come and join me when you are done with the show
D: You'll have to wait till tomorrow for the next question *(scarcity.. always leave her wanting more.. )*
I: Haha we are *(IOI og mere our world)*
I: Omg! I want to surf too! Actually I have a secret to admit then as well . *(2x rapport; spejler mit emne, samt our world igen. IOI. Allerede her burde jeg kunne lukke den, og burde egentlig ikke køre videre. Jeg var lidt ligeglad, hvorfor jeg brød et par game-regler hist og her..)*
I: oh nice, so there is a secret small *workplace* student group?
I: ok I am looking forward to that...
D: Guess you'll have to stop by XXXXXXX Humørikonet Surf Then I'll also show you the dance clubs in the night.
D: I'm always member of the secret clubs. I'm a sucker for secret things what's your secret girl. Have you been a bad girl HB-navn? *(mere our world og lidt sexuel innuendo med også. Burde ikke have spurgt ind til hendes hemmelighed though..)*
I: Haha yes i could do that, and you can teach me how to surf ? *(Det er tydeligvis lykkedes mig at få hende til at forestille sig os to sammen. It is on. )*
I: Actually I am also planning to go traveling this summer. I really want to learn to surf and go diving. my plan is to work a bit more after handing in my thesis and safe some money and then go traveling Humørikonet ape However I thought more about Australia.
but I didn't tell anybody at the office so far, that I am planning to leave again .
I: I can really be a bad girl but most of the time I am nice *(Her eskalerer hun nærmest selv.)*
I: But actually I should let you be the judge about that!?
D: (KAMI tog min fon og skrev den her besked:) Your not bad. You're always a good girl who always does what is expected of her. You need to behave yourself HB. Behave *(Uden punktum til sidst. Vi leger lidt med hende fortsat.)*
I: Haha, ok no comment on that. So did you take full advantage of the free bar yesterday evening?
D: I never take advantage of the free bar ??.. I always behave!
D: But two of my friends bought me drinks all night.. Horrible!
D: Diving is awesome. You should probably be bad this time. Sounds like a great idea .
I: haha really horrible, why would someone do that ;-P and of course one can't say no to free drinks.
D: It's my curse..
I: Bad this time?
I: you mean again behaving really bad with my really nice colleagues
D: Every means nessesary to go surfing and diving. One must prioritize
D: So HB_navn. Dog or cat? *(Efter som samtalen var faldet lidt i energi, ville jeg ikke lukke den der. Spiller videre på, at jeg er den der vurderer om hun er god nok til mig)*
I: True and especially until still at school, need to take advantage of the long vacations
I: Dog definitely, what about you ?
I: haha, and you like saying my name ? *(Elsker hun call'er mig på lige netop det.. Mit svar er selvfølgelig at bruge hendes navn igen..!)*
D: HB_navn, Tea or coffee?
I: and you?
I: no comment on my questions or my answers, Desire ? *(Der er vigtigere ting end at svare på ligegyldige ting..)*
D: Dogs and coffee too. Great choice!
D: Last question..
D: Bacon or egg?
I: and you?
D: Both of course
I: Right, of course
I: haha thanks. That means I made it to the next round? *(Hun er ved at vinde mig. How nice )*
I: or no, it's actually my turn now *(Stor pige vil lege med )*
D: Even though you shocked me a bit with the last one... Yes you passed
I: haha didn't know I could choose both
I: So Desire: spontaneous or planning in advance?
D: Oh girl! Love your question! *(Julien: "Girl" eller er det Max? Any way. Jeg kan godt lide det. Og godt spørgsmål. Hun bliver belønnet med et svar)*
D: I hate that I need to have a calendar ever since I got the job..
I: good choice
D: If i'm going to teach you how to surf, I first need to know you can be nice *(Tid til at invitere hende ud. Bruger call back til samtalen igen.)*
D: Come by for a glass of wine at my place. Tomorrow? *(Ingen slinger i valsen. Lige på og hårdt.... eller øh... hjem.)*
I: What a creative way to ask me out I would like to, but I already made plans for tomorrow evening, but maybe next Thursday or weekend?
D: Thursdays doesn't work for me because I dance Friday? *(Scarcity... DHV.. Og nu forhandler vi ikke om, hvorvidt vi skal se, men datoen...)*
I: Uhhh, what kind of dance? *(IOI....)*
I: Well if it's only one glas of wine we can also do Wednesday otherwise yes I think Friday works for me as well.
D: You'll have to wait and see. Maybe i'll show you Friday is a date. I'm occcupied wednessday.. Jeez calendar life... *(Altid et 'maybe'. Leave her wanting more..)*
I: Ok so Friday it is
I: looking forward to my private show
D: Haha I bet you'd like that! *(Smøre endnu tykkere på mit frame om, at hun får ze prize in me..)*
D: Have to cook with family and a syrian immigrant. Shall be fun. Talk to you *(DHV... og slut samtalen først..)*
I: Oh wow yes sounds interesting! Have fun! And I'll continue with my thesis work...
*samtalen fortsætter i dagene efter det her for at holde den i live frem til vi kunne mødes*